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What is Cunnilingus?

How to go down on a woman

What is Cunnilingus?

Definition: Cunnilingus (also known as ‘going down on a woman’, ‘licking out’, ‘giving head’, ‘eating out’) is the act of sexually pleasuring a woman using the tongue and mouth. Commonly used both as foreplay and to bring a woman to orgasm.

How to ‘go down’ in history as the best she’s ever had

Performing oral sex on women can sometimes be seen as a bit of a dark art, however, mastering the right techniques could have endless pleasurable results and make you an invaluable asset in the bedroom.

Yes, all women have different preferences, different moods and different tolerances for kink, but there are some common principles that will make the majority very happy indeed:

Our three principles of great oral sex on a woman

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Listen to her (the most important one!)

Make sure you know what she wants, and that she feels comfortable telling you about it. Also, pay attention to how she reacts to what you’re doing. Work within her boundaries – slipping a finger in her bum when she didn’t expect (or want) it isn’t a good idea – so get some direction from her about what she likes and wants to try out.

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Don’t treat it like a chore

No man wants to feel like a woman isn’t enjoying giving a blow job and it’s the same for women. If we feel like you’re not having fun, we’re unlikely to have much fun ourselves.

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Mix it up!

There are so many ways to pleasure a woman with oral sex, and even if you’ve been getting great reviews for years, there’s probably more you can try.

How to get started

  • Make sure she’s in the mood

    First things first, if she doesn’t feel relaxed or feels like you don’t really want to do this, she’s not going to enjoy it. Obvious things, such as starting with some kissing, will help but also make sure she’s comfortable with the idea of oral sex. While you’re kissing, test the waters by seeing which parts of her body respond to your touch, whether it’s the outside of her thigh, her neck, her stomach, nipples and so on. You can then incorporate these areas later.

  • Work your way up to going down

    There are plenty of places you can cover in order to build up the tension before moving towards her erogenous zones. Kissing, licking and gently biting her legs from the ankle up can feel incredible. Start on the inner ankle, inner calf, behind the knee then work your way up the thighs…

  • Don’t head straight for the clit!!

    Once you arrive between her legs, there’s much more to do than simply lick her clitoris. If she’s turned on, every touch (and breath!) in this area has the power to make her gasp…

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The main event

Read her reactions

From heavy breathing and gentle moans to the ego-boosting ‘oh wow HOW are you doing that??’, use her reactions to decide what to keep doing and when to change things up.

The longer you take to build things up, the more rewarding her orgasm is likely to be, so pay attention!

Eye contact is a personal thing – much like a lot of this stuff, everyone has a preference. Watching her reactions can obviously be useful, but gauge whether she wants you to look into her eyes while you go down on her. There’s a fine line between intensely sexy… and kinda creepy.

Using your tongue and mouth

Remember your tongue contains eight muscles – and these help to shape it in many different ways and adapt the pressure you can use. For example, flattening your tongue to lick slowly all the way up the vulva, then pointing it to slide inside her vagina or flick quickly over the clitoris… there’s plenty you can do here.

Whilst we’re talking about your mouth, let’s not forget your lips, teeth, and breath. Your lips can be used to suck her clit, or simply hold it between your lips and hum (this isn’t just a trick used in blow jobs).

Teeth can be used – and we can’t emphasise this enough – GENTLY on her labia, alternating with kisses and licks to mix up the sensations.

Don’t forget to use your breath! Gently exhaling your warm breath on her just before you actually touch can feel incredible, just as blowing a little cool air on her after you’ve licked her, or used some cooling lube, can make her toes curl (in a good way hopefully!).

How to use your hands during oral sex

Your hands can play a really important part in oral sex, whether that’s gently opening her labia to give you better access to the clitoris or sliding them (wet please! Saliva or lube are our friends) into her vagina – start with one and add more if she wants. Curling your fingers towards the front of her body means you can stimulate her G-spot too.

Some – but not all (this is her decision, not yours) – women are happy with the idea of some anal play during oral sex too. This might mean a lubed-up finger, or rimming. Just remember not to put that finger back anywhere else. She won’t thank you for giving her an infection!

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Toys to use during oral sex

Clit stims, G-spot vibrators and butt plugs can add an extra dimension to the experience. Extra vibrations or pressure that you don’t have quite enough fingers to create can take her from ‘mmm this is good’ to the neighbours raising a noise complaint.

How to use lube during oral sex

Yes, you have saliva in your mouth – and that’s great – but can your spit make her clit tingle, warm up, or taste like prosecco? Didn’t think so. Have a look at our edible lubes, licks and body paints – they’re a real game-changer.

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Positions for oral sex

You might be surprised by just how many oral sex positions there are – from your standard and classic missionary, where she’s on her back with her legs either spread or held together and up in the air (or against her chest), right through to a standing 69… there’s something for everyone!

Here are some of our favourites:

standing 69
the full frontal
sideways 69
the bow down
riding high
four on the floor

How to make a woman cum with oral sex

So, by now she’s already mentally planning when you can do all this again, and she hasn’t even had an orgasm yet.

Many women have blended orgasms, meaning they receive more than one kind of stimulation at the same time. So, to give you the best chance of making a woman orgasm from oral sex, cover as many bases as you can. Most orgasms involve the clitoris in one way or another, so licking the clit is a good start. Adding the G-spot into the mix, using your finger/s or a vibrator, might just help tip the balance. The same can be said for stroking the nipples if the position allows.

When you know she’s getting ready to cum, keep going.

Changing things at this point might mean she loses her rhythm, which can be pretty frustrating and land you both back to square one. If you’re comfortable enough and happy with what you’re doing (obviously) then just keep going. She’ll thank you. A lot.

Bon Appetit!

Love, Team AS x