How to Spice up the Cowgirl Position

The Cowgirl position - it may be a favourite for some and a basic go-to for others. One thing we do know is that it screams control, confidence and intimate all at once. Even though it’s a position we all love, we never want sex positions to become repetitive and sex is definitely something we don’t want to get bored of.

Who says you have to stick to the rules all of the time? Cowgirl can easily be switched up in so many ways to make it exciting each and every time. So listen up. With a bit of confidence, the right lingerie, and a little battery-powered backup, it’s time to take this classic sex position from hot to smoking. Let’s ride…

Channel your inner cowgirl… quite literally

If we’re going on theme, we’re going on theme. Grab your cowboy boots and hat and add in a playful roleplay twist to your night in between (or on top!) of the sheets. Ok so you don’t have to keep them on ‘til you’ve gone all the way, but start the moment off in character and whip them off when you feel like it. But stripping off doesn’t mean you have to get out of character. Take them for the ride of their life and use play on words to keep the tone fun and less serious. Think ‘hold on tight’ and ‘grab the reins’ and whatever else tickles your cowgirl fancy. Think about adding a crop or whip into the mix too to tease and taunt, only if your both comfortable with this.

Add in a little vibration

Cowgirl is all about taking control, but adding in a little buzz can take it from good to unforgettable. Trust us, you can never go wrong with adding in sex toys. They bring pleasure to both you – think a vibrator against their balls to send shivers straight down their spine or a bullet vibrator rubbed against the clit so you can enjoy external and internal pleasure at the same time. Experiment with rhythm, pressure and angles of the vibrators for both of you and wait to see how a little extra stimulation can heighten the excitement for both of you. Toys don’t steal the spotlight, they enhance your experience and take it from 1-100 real quick.

Play with paces

We know cowgirl is all about control, so take that control and run, walk and pause with it (we’re talking taking total control over the pace here). Switch it up as you go. Start slowly and deeply, letting every moment in between build up that anticipation, then quickly pick up the tempo with fast bounces. Next? Swap out the bouncing for grinding, letting your curves and friction do the work. And don’t forget every now and then to add in a pause that’s just long enough to tease (not too long to kill the moment). Watch their reaction, enjoy the intense suspense between you both and let the eye contact do all the talking. Changing up the rhythm and going back and forth from slow to fast keeps it unpredictable and exciting, bringing the big O closer and closer.

Cowgirl isn’t a position that should be brushed aside, it’s a position that’s all about confidence, control, and unapologetic pleasure. If you love it, but find yourself in a repetitive cycle, you just need to spice things up and add a few twists to it to keep it exciting. With the right lingerie that makes you feel sexy, a little playful roleplay to keep things fun, and a touch of vibration to turn up the intensity, there’s no limit to how extremely good this position can be. Don’t forget to play with your paces, be confident and own every moment, whilst teasing, tantalising and taking charge. So saddle up, take the reins and ride every joyful moment. Why not turn around and try the reverse cowgirl?