Are you ready to take control and strap into something more powerful? Whether you’re pegging a partner into a state of bliss, exploring your gender expression or finding a new way to connect with someone, this collection is for you. The right harness will hold things in place and make you feel like an entirely different version of yourself. And our strap-on dildos come with flared bases that’ll sit flush against your O-ring, giving you the thrusting power you crave. Grab the lube and dive into realistic, curved and silicone designs that are built for your comfort, stability and delicious sensations.
A harness is only as good as what you put in it, and what you put in it should make your partner forget their own name. Designed to move with your body and hit just right whether you’re giving or receiving, shop strap-on harnesses and dildos that’ll drive you both wild.
Whether you’re into realistic designs, sleek silicone styles or curved shapes for targeted sensation, there’s a strap-on dildo to match your vibe. Size, firmness and shape all play a role, and the right one depends entirely on what kind of experience you’re after.
Never. Rush. Anal. Play. When you’re relaxed and comfortable, pleasure is always more enjoyable. Those new to penetration may want to start with butt plugs and work their way up.
A beginner friendly takes the guess work out and is ideal for those who want to dip their toes into pegging and/or don’t want a dildo that looks too realistic. Begin with dildos from 4-5 inches in insertable length with around 1” girth. From there, experiment with 5-6.5 inches. 6.5” and above? Delicious for those who like it big. Always use plenty of anal lube to keep anal exploration silky smooth. For more advice, lesbian-strap-on-guide and pegging guide for beginners answers many questions that beginners may have like “does pegging make you gay?”.
It depends on the type. Traditional dildos require a compatible harness to use as a strap-on. Strapless strap ons are designed to be worn without a harness: the bulbous inner end is inserted into the wearer's vagina and held in place by the pelvic floor muscles, with the external shaft available for penetrating a partner. Strapless designs require a bit more experience and pelvic floor engagement to stay in position effectively.
Yes, in multiple ways! Strapless strap-ons provide internal sensation for the wearer and penetrative sensation for the partner simultaneously. Some harnesses are designed to hold a vibrating toy against the wearer's body while a dildo penetrates a partner. And regardless of the setup, many people who wear harnesses describe significant arousal and pleasure from the psychological experience of giving penetration - the physical contact of thrusting transfers sensation, even without direct genital stimulation and many report both mental and clit stimulation from wearing a strap on.
Put it on while you're getting dressed, before the moment arrives. Adjust the straps until the O-ring sits flush against your body, you shouldn't be able to fit more than two fingers between the harness and your skin.
Feed the base of the dildo through the O-ring. The flat base should lie flush against the front of the harness. Give it a firm pull to confirm it's secure before you begin.
For anal play: silicone-based lube lasts longer and is ideal for strap-on play, but only use it with ABS or TPE toys, not silicone. For vaginal play, either water-based or silicone-based is appropriate. Reapply throughout to keep things wet and wild.
Begin with shallow penetration, let your partner adjust, and check in regularly. With anal play specifically, the receiver's comfort and relaxation determine everything. Tension is the enemy of pleasure for you both.
Remove the dildo from the harness, washing both separately using a toy cleaner. Store your harness clean and dry.
A strap on dildo is a dildo that’s worn using a harness around the waist or thighs for handsfree penetration.
A strap-on dildo is held in place by a harness, giving the wearer the ability to penetrate a partner handsfree.
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