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Lingerie Gifts: The Secret to Picking Lingerie That Turns Her On (and You Too)

Buying lingerie for your girlfriend or wife can be a struggle. Get it right and you can make yourself a hero but get it wrong and you might end up in the bad books. Lingerie gifts are the perfect intimate present whether it’s for a birthday, anniversary or just because, but we know it can be intimidating to buy with so many options to choose from.

Whether you’re buying a bra and pants set for your girlfriend or a lingerie gift for your wife, we know how many different questions you might have. From different materials to colours and styles, how do you know what they love? Well, strap in because we’ll tell you how you can step away from the bath bombs and learn how to choose something sexier for your other half.

Is a Lingerie Gift a Good Choice?

Absolutely – as long as you get it right. A lingerie gift celebrates her body, boosts her confidence and fuels the fire between you both. Chocolates melt and flowers die, but a lingerie gift? That lingers long after the wrapping hits the floor.

If your partner is pregnant, a maternity lingerie gift is a great way to empower them and make them feel their best whilst their navigating the changes of their body.

Sexy Lace Balcony Bra in Purple

Buying a Bra for a Girlfriend or Partner

Buying the bra is probably the most difficult part, after all, bra sizing can be difficult waters to navigate even for us women, considering a large percentage of women don’t even know their correct bra size. Our bra fitting guide should help you get your head around the numbers and letters.

The safest bet when it comes to sizes is to get snooping. When your partner is out and about or you’re doing the washing, just check the label in one of their bras and find out what size they wear. It’s a fool proof way to find the right size and avoid any confusion (or offence).

When it comes to the style of bra, that’s really down to you. If you’re looking for sexy lingerie for your girlfriend, a plunge bra is a seductive choice that will give her breasts a boost, a peephole bra is a cheeky choice that will instantly turn up the heat, or a balcony bra is the perfect choice for feminine elegance.

Buying Alternative Lingerie Gifts

When it comes to buying lingerie for your wife or girlfriend, why not opt for something a little different that’s more suited strictly to the bedroom? A corset or basque screams sexy and it feels a little bit more special, helping them dress as fierce as they feel. Alternatively, a bodystocking can help leave little to the imagination and make you both want to head straight to the bedroom.

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Matching Lingerie Gifts

Once you’ve found the right bra, it’s 100%, definitely, a good idea to go for the matching knickers. After all, matching lingerie sets can make any girl feel special and great underneath her clothes. There are often different choices in the same style when it comes to the bottom half, whether it’s a thong, Brazilian or a string. If you want to make things a little kinkier, something crotchless could be the perfect choice. At this stage though it’s also important to assess what your partner already wears. If you’ve never seen them in a thong, we wouldn’t suggest going for that. Women want to feel comfortable in the lingerie they wear, and if you choose something completely different to what they’re used to, their likely to feel nothing but uncomfortable. Same goes for colour too – don’t go for something too bright if you know they always wear tonal colours or vice versa.

Finding the perfect lingerie gift for a romantic anniversary

Anniversaries are the most perfect occasion to gift lingerie. What screams romantic but sexy more than new lingerie? Afterall, anniversaries aren’t just for flowers and dinner, they deserve a little mischief too. Whether it’s a lace basque that shows off her curves, a silky chemise that simply slips off, or a daring knickers and bra set that leaves you wanting more, it’s not just about what she wears, but about the spark between you both that you never want to forget.

Lingerie Gifts: Accessories

Don’t be predictable when buying underwear for your girlfriend or partner. Sexy lingerie accessories are a naughty addition to your present and can be used to tease your partner later on in the bedroom. Remember you can accessorise any lingerie outfit to turn it up to new levels of sexiness, giving your partner a little something extra in the meantime.

Stockings

For many people, the sheer sight of stockings is enough to drive them wild, whether wearing them or just seeing their partner in them. They can be one of the most sexually empowering items of lingerie… and sizing is much easier to get right with these!

Suspender Belts

How do you take stockings to the next level? Attach them to a sexy suspender belt, that’s how. You’ll often find a suspender belt that matches your bra and knicker, basque or other choice.

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Quick Tips for the Perfect Lingerie Gift

Still wondering how to gift lingerie? Not to worry, here are some quick tips to bear in mind before buying underwear for your girlfriend, wife or partner:

  • 1. Get the Size Right

    We can’t stress this enough – just check! Not only do you run the risk of upsetting your partner by not knowing their size, but it also means your luxury lingerie gift is useless if you get it wrong.

  • 2. Do Your Research

    OK, time to go undercover. In the weeks before you make a purchase, try to drop a few subtle questions to find out what your partner likes. This is especially important if the underwear you buy is going to become part of her everyday collection and be worn regularly. Secondly, take on board all the tips and tricks in this lingerie buying guide and you’ll be all prepped to make a well-informed purchase.

  • 3. Be Mindful of Her Insecurities

    This is where you really need to know and understand your partner in order to get it right. If your partner has a part of their body that they’ve said they’re uncomfortable with, account for this with your purchase. Whilst you should be doing everything you can to build your partner’s confidence, buying something that plays to her favourite assets will help make her feel much more empowered.

  • 4. Pick for Her as Well as You

    Sure, it’s important that you like the lingerie, after all your partner probably won’t want to wear something you really don’t like. But remember, it’s not all about you, try to find something she’ll like first.

  • 5. Decide What's It For

    Going for a naughty weekend away? Something crotchless might be the perfect idea. Shopping for something more everyday? A peephole bra isn’t going to do the job. Try to think about the intent behind your gift before choosing.

  • 6. If in Doubt, Play it Safe

    If you’re really not sure what your partner would like, try to take inspiration from her existing lingerie collection. That way you’ll probably discover what she’s comfortable in. For example, can’t spot any thongs? She probably prefers something different.

  • 7. Keep Your Receipt Handy

    Look, it’s not always going to work out properly and we know that. That’s why our returns policy is in place to help you return or exchange your gift without hassle.

Now you’re all ready, it’s time to get shopping for your sexiest lingerie gift yet. Just browse our lingerie section to find the perfect gift idea from bras and corsets to stockings and babydolls, you’ll find everything that’s sure to impress.

Love,
AS x

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