The Ultimate Dildo Guide

Whether you’re seeking solo pleasure or fun with a partner, dildos are an exciting way to spice things up in the bedroom and take your sexual satisfaction to new heights.

They say the classics never go out of style… and they’re right. Dildos are considered to be the world’s very first sex toy. Perhaps the most popular sex toy on the market, nothing enhances sex and masturbation quite like the dildo does. This versatile sex toy comes in a range of shapes and sizes and can be used in more ways than one. From popular types of dildos to our favourite dildo positions, we’ve collated all there is to know about dildos to inspire your next naughty session.

What is a dildo?

A dildo is a sex toy designed in the same shape as a penis that can be used for self-pleasure or as an extra special addition to sex with a partner. A dildo comes in all shapes, sizes and materials, making sure your solo or shared adventures never get boring.

When were dildos invented?

Dildos have been around longer than you think with the first one traced back to the stone age. Archaeologists have found evidence of these cheeky little pleasure sticks being made from materials like stone and wood. Proving that us humans have been coming up with creative methods of pleasure-seeking since before we even learned how to grow our food.

How to insert a dildo

If you’re using your dildo for penetration, get yourself into a dildo riding position (we’ve got a few suggestions below) and ensure the tip of the dildo is in line with either your vaginal or anal hole. For easy insertion, apply lube to the dildo and gently lower yourself onto it until it’s fully inside you. Once inserted, you can then ride the dildo at a pace which suits you…

How to use a dildo

Using a dildo might seem like a pretty straightforward thing to do, right?! Well, while you can get so far on your own, we want to help you out with a little imagination. After all, the angle and speed of penetration can make a big difference. Here are a few ideas to take your dildo play to new levels of pleasure.

Hitting the G-spot

This is a great way to use a dildo to experiment and help you figure out what works for your body. As you pull it out, apply pressure so that it hits the top of your vagina and drags across your G-spot. Once you’ve located that magic spot, keep it aimed that way and shoot to thrill!

Do the twist

Many dildos are designed with different bumps and textures along the shaft which add extra sensation as you move it in and out. To maximise the effect of these areas, try rotating the dildo as you push it back and forth for a toe-curling experience.

Deep or shallow

Mix up the depth of penetration with your dildo with long, deep thrusts and short, shallow thrusts. This means you’ll be more likely to hit those nerve endings towards the entrance of your vagina, as well as the G-spot and pleasure zones deeper within.

Push it down

Similar to hitting the G-spot, this position relies on penetrating at an angle. However, instead of pushing towards the top of the vagina, you’re aiming the other way. As you’re laid on the bed, angle the dildo downwards, apply some lube and enjoy the friction against your clit.

How to ride a dildo

Ready to take the reins and become the pilot of your own pleasure ride? Buckle up, grab your dildo and get ready to explore every angle, pace, and rhythm that makes your body feel great. Let’s look at some of the top dildo riding positions we can’t get enough of.

Wooden doll in the position Room with a View

Room with a view: Get down on your knees and spread them slightly. This will allow you to stimulate the entire area, working up from the vaginal opening to the clitoris in order to make the most of your natural lubrication before putting in your dildo. This position is particularly good for a suction-based dildo. It'll also leave your hands free to roam around your vagina and stimulate your clitoris for that elusive multiple orgasm. Once inserted, ride your dildo up and down at a pace you feel comfortable with. Experiment with the speed and the angle of your back until you find that sweet spot.

Wooden doll in the position The Long Way Around

The long way around: This position allows you to easily target your G-spot with your dildo. Your G-spot is located in the front wall of your vagina so entering yourself from behind at this angle will help you apply pressure to the spot. Whilst you internally pleasure yourself, consider using a vibrating bullet either with your other hand or laid on the bed. This will help you achieve those blended orgasms by stimulating the external nerve endings.

Wooden doll in the position Fumbling Stranger

The fumbling stranger: Lay on your back and re-position your legs to provide the best access to your clitoris whilst you penetrate yourself with your dildo.

Concentrate on doubling up on the pleasure by gliding your other hand upwards over your clitoris. Rather than stimulating this hot bed of nerve endings in a side-to-side motion, experiment with stroking upwards, giving you direct access to the super sensitive clitoris rather than the clitoral hood.

Different types of dildos explained

Not sure where to start when shopping for a dildo? Let's take a look at the different types so you can find your perfect match.

Realistic dildos

A realistic dildo is a dildo designed to look and feel like a real penis. Made from a skin-soft material, realistic dildos are lifelike in weight and thickness. If you close your eyes and add a bit of lube, you’ll likely forget you’re not riding the real thing.

Just like real penises, realistic dildos come in all shapes and sizes. Easy to handle, easy to use and shaped to perfection, they’re ideal for total beginners.

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Vibrating dildos

Vibrating dildos are phallic-shaped toys which vibrate to create sexual simulation. Vibrating dildos come in all shapes and sizes, so you can find the right one for you.

If you’re looking for the best vibrating dildo, the Rampant Rabbit® is a strong contender. We invented our iconic bunny over 30 years ago and it’s since become the world’s most successful sex toy. Our ever-growing range features plenty of kinds of vibrating dildo, so you can find the sensations that will stimulate you the best. Find out more in our guide to the best Rampant Rabbits.

Combined with a clit-stimulating vibrator in the bunny ears, Rampant Rabbits® hit every spot for a bed-shakingly, sheet-grabbingly intense orgasm. We sell one every 20 seconds, so what are you waiting for?

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Anal dildos

Anal Dildos look the same as vaginal dildos but are also designed to slide up your rear end. How? Anal dildos have a flared base to avoid the dildo getting stuck up your back passage. Beginners might be a little apprehensive about backdoor play, but the key is to start small, work your way up and follow our beginner’s anal sex guide closely.

Anal dildos are the best dildos for men who want to play alone or with a partner. For men, the main event is the prostate (the male G-spot). It can only be reached by anal penetration. But don't believe anyone who tells you it's not pleasurable for women too – it'll hit nerve endings you've never even felt before, stimulating you in new and exciting ways.

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Strap-on and dildo harnesses

Strap-on dildos are attached to a harness which fastens around the hips and legs for added comfort. If you want to indulge in a little pegging or strap-on sex, then this is the toy you need.

They’re the perfect penetrative play item for same-sex or straight couples, and a great way to take anal to the next step if you’d like to try something new. Strap-on dildos are popular in bondage and BDSM play, especially if you’re dipping your toe in the waters of role reversal. But it’s not all about submission, as strap-on play can still be sensual and intimate. Give it a go and see where you end up...

If you’re already the proud owner of a prized dildo, then all you need is a harness to get you ready for action. Most of the harnesses on our site will fit just about any toy, fitting snugly and securely around your waist.

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Double dildos

A double-ended dildo has two ends, giving you and your partner the option to ride it simultaneously. Erotic and experimental, double-ended dildos can turn a fantasy into reality. If you’re part of a straight couple, these toys let the man double-penetrate his woman with ease.

For same-sex couples looking to play nicely and finish the deed together, double-ended dildos are a great option. Our designs can be used to take both you and your partner to new heights of simultaneous pleasure.

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Large dildos

A dildo with a shaft measuring 6 inches or longer is classed as a large dildo. Not for the faint-hearted, these big boys are perfect for those looking to push their pleasure to the limits.

As the name may explain, if you’re a lover of length and girth, then look no further. Our bigger dildos range from 6 to 9 inches, and they’re all designed for larger-than-life orgasms. It’s probably not the best place to start your dildo journey, but once you decide to hop on, get ready for the ride of your life.

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Beginner dildos

If you’re using a dildo for the first time, we recommend trying a small to medium single-ended dildo. A regular sized dildo will allow you to comfortably try it out for the first time without causing you discomfort. Once you’re comfortable and confident riding your dildo and you’ve used it a few times, you may want to experiment with a larger dildo or a double ended dildo if you’re using it with a partner.

Dildos for couples

Dildos aren’t just for solo use; if you’re shopping specifically to introduce a dildo into your relationship, there’s no right or wrong option to go for. Couples often use them to explore new sensations together, experiment with positions, or add variety to their usual routine.

Some enjoy them during foreplay, others use them for double penetration. Of course, if you’re using for double penetration then you’ll need a double ended dildo, but if not, then you have free reign. The key is finding a style and material that both of you are comfortable with, so explore different options and find your fave.

What are dildos made of?

Dildos can be made from a variety of materials, all bringing different feelings, sensations and waves of pleasure.

Silicone dildos

Silicone dildos are firm yet flexible (two things you definitely want in a dildo), as well as being soft and smooth. Silicone is medical grade, so you know it’s perfectly safe for your skin. It’s great to use with most lubes but steer clear of silicone-based ones!

Glass dildos

Glass dildos are a thing of beauty, and they even feel as good as they look. If you want something a little firmer, it doesn’t get better than this. Glass dildos are also perfect for stimulating the g-spot without any vibrations.

These babies can be heated up under running water or cooled in the freezer if you’re tempted to dabble in sensation play – something you won’t get from other kinds of dildos.

But won’t glass dildos break inside me? Absolutely not, so get playing. Glass dildos are made of incredibly durable borosilicate glass, so they can stand up to 3,000lb of pressure. No matter how much you use it, a glass dildo will serve you through years of wear and tear and, because it’s non-porous, it’ll be super easy to clean.

Silicone vs glass dildos

Silicone dildos are soft and flexible, making them a go-to for beginners and anyone who prefers a smooth, skin-like feel. Glass dildos are firm, weighty, and perfect for those who enjoy precision and experimenting with temperature play (warm it up or cool it down for extra thrills). Silicone will give you comfort and versatility, and glass offers intensity and a bit of luxury, but the choice really is yours and what sensations you’re after.

Dildos vs vibrators – what’s the difference?

To put it simply, dildos are for the ride and vibrators are for the fireworks. A dildo is a hands-on, no-frills pleasure tool used purely for thrusting, teasing, and exploring at your own pace. Vibrators hit all the right spots and are all about intensity and sensation, giving you an extra layer of stimulation that a classic dildo can’t match.

Dildo safety tips

Safety might not sound sexy but trust us, it keeps the fun going.

Stick to body-safe materials like silicone or glass
Always lube up to keep things smooth sailing
Make sure your toy is thoroughly cleaned before and after play
If you’re sharing, use a condom because no one wants to swap more than they bargained for
If it doesn’t feel right, stop

How much are dildos?

Dildos can vary in price depending on which style you go for; our range of dildos varies from £15 to £70.

How to clean and store dildos

As we always say, dildo cleanliness is highly important, and you should take the time to clean it after every use.

Start by running it under warm (not boiling) water
Use a mild, fragrance-free, anti-bacterial soap and apply it to the toy, making sure it’s thoroughly cleaned all over
Rinse off any excess soap and ensure there’s no residue
Dry your dildo – You can use a towel but make sure to remove any fibres which could be left behind
Store your dildo somewhere clean, dry, and out of direct sunlight. Heat and dust can damage the material over time.

To find out exactly how to clean your dildo, check out our how to clean sex toys guide.

No matter if you’re flying solo or spicing things up with a partner, dildos are here to take your pleasure further. From soft silicone to firm, weighty glass, there’s a dildo to match every craving and curiosity. Experiment with positions, lube up, and let your body guide the fun. With a little exploration, and a lot of enjoyment, dildos prove that the simplest pleasures really are the most unforgettable.