The Best Lesbian Sex Toys

Call us biased, but we think all sex is better with sex toys thrown in – and lesbian sex is no different. Whether you’re using them alone or with a partner, there are plenty of great lesbian sex toys out there that guarantee to take those big O’s to new heights.

Of course, this guide can apply to you, whether you’re lesbian, bisexual, non-binary or transgender. These toys can be for everyone!

From the best lesbian sex toys to spice up your time in the bedroom to a guide on how to usestrap ons, here’s everything you need to know.

How to use lesbian sex toys

Vibrators and sex toys for lesbians don’t necessarily sit in a category of their own, because the sex toys best suited to you come down completely to individual preferences. This naturally means the question of how to use them is pretty open – it depends on which toy you opt for and what sensations you enjoy.

For lesbian play, some may prefer a toy that focuses solely on external stimulation, some may like to use a strap-on dildo, some may prefer a classic realistic dildo for penetration, and some may prefer penetration with something a little less phallic looking. It’s all about what feels good for you, and there are no rules!

With that said, there are certain types of sex toy that work incredibly for lesbian sex. Here are some of the best sex toys for lesbian couples to have in your collection…

The 5 best lesbian sex toys

Bullet Vibes

If you love a bit of teasing in the bedroom, a bullet vibrator should be making its way straight into your toy collection. A bullet vibe is one of the best sex toys for women, they are great for use all over the body during foreplay, on erogenous zones such as the neck, nipples or inner thighs, or of course, for direct clitoral stimulation.


Amongst some of the most powerful sex toys for women offering external stimulation, check out the powerful vibes that a wand vibrator has to offer. Wands are a true classic in the world of sex toys, and for very good reason – they feel pretty damn amazing! If you want to know more about how to use these toe-curlingly good toys, our Guide to Wand Vibrators tells you all you need to know.


Maybe penetrative play is more your thing? If so, welcome to the world of dildos. There are all kinds of different options here depending on what you enjoy personally, from vibrating dildos or Rabbit dildos to realistic feel dildos.

Whether you’re using a dildo manually on your partner or as part of a strap on set (more on that later!), you don’t have to pick one that looks like a penis. While some enjoy the feelings and textures that a realistic penis dildo brings, there are also sleek options that guarantee equally mind-blowing sensations.

Double-ended Dildos

Two heads are better than one, right? If you have playtime for two in mind, a double-ended dildo promises double the orgasms. Double-ended dildos tend to feature ultra-flexible designs, so they can be used in whichever position you prefer. Again, you can find regular and vibrating options in both realistic and smoother designs so you can experience pleasure your way. As always, make sure there’s plenty of lube before sliding your toy in and clean with sexual hygiene products afterwards.

Harnesses and Strap Ons

For hands-free penetrative fun, a harness is a must. You can buy strap ons that already come with everything you need, or you can combine a harness with your favourite strap on dildo to create your own perfect strap on set. Then, harness up and prepare for the ride of your life!

As we mentioned before lesbian toy sex can be anything you want it to be, using any toy you like – the possibilities are endless! Just remember to keep the conversation open with your partner so that you both feel comfortable, especially if you’re sex toy beginners. The hints and tips just keep on coming - read our top lesbian sex tips guide and discover more ways to make lesbian sex even more amazing.

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