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Kinky Sex Ideas to Try Out

Our recent fetish survey uncovered just how much us Brits love to get our freak on… and it turns out we’re a kinky bunch. A massive 75% have a sexual fetish, with BDSM coming out on top as the most popular – a massive 74% of over 2,300 respondents regularly explore the world of bondage and power play. We may be famed for being a nation of prudes, but behind closed doors (or dungeons) we’re open-minded in a whole host of wonderful ways.

Take sexy dress-up outfits, for example. 46% of people surveyed claim to have a fetish for a certain uniform, and here at Ann Summers, we like to help turn your fantasies into reality. So whether Naughty Nurse, maids or Police Officer are your thing, getting dressed up can add an extra sexy element to the bedroom.

So now we know what turns the nation on, here are our sex tips to show you how to turn up the kinkiness in your sex life.

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Kinky Oral Sex Ideas

Bondage Blowjob

Handcuffs and heels are always a good place to start. Take your partner by surprise and dress up in erotic lingerie or a barely-there look. Use soft ties or an eye-mask to blindfold your partner and, without a word, cuff his hands behind his back. Gently guide him so his back is against the wall and start by kissing and breathing hot air into his ear whilst undoing his trousers. Drop to your knees and slowly lick and tease his penis, working your way from the balls to the tip of the shaft. Work the head by flicking your tongue across the tip and alternate with deep throat action. Use your hands to firmly stimulate the base and build the rhythm until he loses control.

To find out more about giving the perfect blowjob, check out our Beginners Guide to Blowjobs.

Tease and Please

Because kisses are overrated. Add some kink into your foreplay by gently biting and using your teeth to tease sensitive areas. Nip their lower lip, inner thighs, nipples and neck.

Divine 69

Use bondage tape to wrap each other up, leaving only the crucial areas exposed. The pressure from the tape around these areas will heighten sensitivity and the tape sticks to itself, not skin, so you can also use it to create your own restraints. The wet look tape with high shine and PVC texture is ideal for those who have a material fetish (most commonly rubber, latex or leather) and 15% of people in our survey get turned on by the look and touch. So, why not try it for yourself? Try the 69 while you’re all taped up.

Two ladies in a passionate hold tangled up in sheets

Fun Kinky Sex Ideas

Live the Fantasy

Go to a restaurant, bar or party separately, wear the sexiest outfit and only let them see you in it for the first time when you get there. Flirt like you’ve just met, own your new character and send naughty texts to each other all night, describing in detail what you want to do to them. Pre-book a hotel room and leave the party when it gets too much. Roleplay is the kinkiest way to be whoever you want to be and live your wildest fantasies.

Get Wild

Amp it up during foreplay and send shivers down their spine. Sit on the kitchen worktop or a desk and wrap your legs around your partner while they hold you under your thighs for support. Have a fast and furious quickie and lightly drag your nails down their back as the pace gets intense. If they have sensitive nips – lick and lightly tweak them until you both come to a shuddering climax.

Want more? Use our Door Jam Swing Restraint and have your wicked way against the door.

Heighten the Senses

Have a night in that you’ll never forget. Put on a blindfold, lay on the bed and surrender to your partner. Get them to use our Massage Candle to drip sensual oil directly from the candle onto your skin. When you’re fully relaxed, your partner can get as creative as you want them to. With sight taken away, your senses become heightened and every lick, spank and tickle is amplified and becomes highly anticipated.

Kinky Sex Tips

Experiment with feather ticklers, paddles, floggers, whips and nipple clamps, to discover exactly what your body responds to. Want more? Allow your partner to ball gag you and use bed restraints – but ALWAYS ensure you agree a clear safe word or action before you begin. If you do feel like experimenting with BDSM, read our guide from Madam Storm for expert advice on trying it out.

For more sensation play, use a cooling or warming lube on their clit or shaft; gently blow on the area to really intensify the cooling/warming sensation.

These kinky sex ideas are the perfect way to add a little spice in the bedroom and help you discover new things that you might want to explore further. Just dress up, tie up and let your imagination run wild!