Position: The Queen

Step up and take your throne – this is an oral sex position that will ensure you’re treated like royalty.


How to do it

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To master The Queen, have your partner lay down flat, with their knees slightly bent for comfort.

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You can then straddle your partner, gently resting over their face and supporting your weight with your knees. While we often refer to these women-on-top oral positions as ‘facesitting’, the key here is not to sit but instead kneel – trust us, it feels much more pleasurable and comfortable for everyone involved!

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You can spice things up at this point by drizzling some edible lube or body paint over your nipples and clitoris. It’ll heighten sensations for you while offering a tasty treat for your partner, too.

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Once you’re in position you can lean your body forwards slightly, holding onto their head for full control while your partner uses their mouth, hands and tongue to pleasure you.

Why should I do it?

We firmly believe oral is about so much more than just foreplay and can be as big an event as penetrative sex. Oral is a fantastic option for toe-curling orgasms, especially if you struggle to reach the big O from penetration alone. If you’re looking for an ultra-empowering oral position that feels amazing too, look no further than The Queen. This oral sex position is traditionally known as ‘Queening’ as, just like women in power, it allows you to take full control. With The Queen, you can let out your dominant side and ride your way to climax at whichever pace, pressure and with the movements that feel best for you.

Make it hotter

From this submissive position, your partner can reach around and stroke your bum, try anal play, or venture up to your nipples to give your erogenous zones even more stimulation. Or, if you fancy taking the kink a step further, you can play around with the control aspect of this position and introduce some gentle restraints for your partner – perhaps a pair of handcuffs.

Oral, power-play and all the control at your fingertips; this naughty but nice oral sex position really does let you live like a queen.

Perfect Next Position

If you’re looking for the next oral position to drive you both wild, why not step up the difficulty with The Standing 69? This exciting upgrade to the 69 position promises the ultimate head rush.

Teach Me More

To guarantee an even more satisfying experience, check out our guide on How to Go Down on a Woman.