Free your mind, build sexual intimacy and stimulate your body to bring a whole new meaning to amazing sex. How? With the ancient Tantric Yab-Yum position. Because who doesn’t want to experience mind-blowing pleasure?

Once a traditional posture made to unify both man and woman, now the Yab-Yum is used to combine meditation, yoga and sex all into one. In other words, this isn’t something to rush. So, this time, a raunchy quickie just won’t cut it! Unlike top-and-bottom positions, the Yab-Yum allows you both to sit upright equally – a sure fire way to make you both happy… It’s all about exploring a deeper connection with your partner as well as stimulation. Couldn’t get any more erotic than that, right? Better yet, not only is this so easy to do, but it allows you and your partner to maintain eye contact, kiss and get as handsy as you’d like. And another bonus is that you’ll have full control of rhythm and speed. So, climb on board, take deep breaths and experience the best sexual experience of your life.

  1. Have your man sit upright with his legs folded. If he finds it uncomfortable, he could sit on a chair, or the edge of the bed instead.

  1. Sit on his lap, wrapping your legs around his waist and arms around his shoulders prior to penetration. You can allow your legs to hang loosely if you’re both sitting on a chair. Then have him wrap his arms around your waist and rock back-and-forth slowly as you penetrate – much more satisfying than just jumping in!

  1. Now it’s time to build sexual tension with some skin-to-skin contact. Get up-close as much as possible to stimulate each other’s bodies. To really experiment, keep both eyes closed or open and place the tip of your tongues together and test out different ways of breathing simultaneously.

  1. Try a variety of different movements in this position – try thrusting up and down, side-to-side or arch your lower-back while rocking rhythmically onto his pelvis as you breathe in and out. Then let the sexual energy flow until you both reach an orgasm that’s truly unforgettable.

Trust us – this isn’t something that you’d want to pass. Try it now, thank us later.

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