How to do The Frisk Position

The perfect position for a quickie. Whether you're bent over the kitchen counter or having a change of scenery and taking it into the great outdoors, The Frisk is the perfect way to get fruity.

Some positions are planned. Others are negotiated. The Frisk is definitely not either of those.
It's fast, it's instinctive, and it's got that irresistible energy that makes overthinking completely irrelevant. If you're the kind of couple who likes things a little wild, a little unfiltered, and very much in the moment, this position is about to become your new favourite.

What is The Frisk sex position?

The Frisk is a sex position where the receiver is bent over as the giver enters from behind. It's known for its quick, passionate movement and full body contact. The name plays on the idea of being grabbed, help and pulled up close suddenly, a sense of spontaneity, and fast and energetic movement rather than slow and romantic.

How to do The Frisk position

Have your partner enter you from behind as you bend over. For deeper G-spot targeting sex, bend further from the hips, while you grab onto your shins or your ankles. If you're flexible enough, place your palms on the floor and have your partner support you by holding your hips, making sure you don't topple forwards.

Benefits of The Frisk sex position

We love The Frisk because it allows you to fulfil that ‘I want you here and I want you now' energy. It's spontaneous, a little bit wild, and perfect if you like things hot, fast, and full of chemistry. Because it's so close-contact, you get plenty of skin-to-skin connection, with that amazing feeling of being completely in the moment together. It also breaks you out of the usual bedroom routine, proving that sometimes the best sex happens when you don't overthink it; you just grab, go, and enjoy the ride.

How to up the ante in The Frisk position

As with all sex positions, lube can make The Frisk feel even more incredible. Make sure you're both lubed up before your lover enters you. With lubed up fingers, have your partner stimulate the clitoris or nipples. If manual stimulation doesn't quite get you there, add a bullet and run it from their scrotum up to your clit, varying the pressure and speed.
Any position from behind limits the view for the receiver. If you get off on the visuals, place a mirror on the floor between your legs. Watch as your partner enters you and get off on your very own, live action porn film. If you still feel like you're missing out on seeing your partner, have sex near a hung mirror to sneak peaks of their face and watch just how much they're enjoying it.
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Tips for The Frisk Position

The Frisk is all about spontaneity, but a little finesse goes a long way if you want it to feel amazing rather than chaotic.

  • Don't underestimate the power of a solid surface - a wall, door, or sturdy piece of furniture can make all the difference in keeping things stable.
  • Communication is key too - even in the heat of the moment, a quick check-in can keep everything feeling good for both of you.
  • Slow things down - if balance feels tricky, find your rhythm first. There's no need to rush it.
  • Lean into the closeness - this position works best when you're fully engaged with each other and not trying to overthink angles.

Perfect next position

If you like sex from behind, try the rocking chair. Not requiring quite as much balance, but a great option for comfort and great sensations.

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