Our Pleasure Positivity Project launched in July 2019 with the mission of breaking down the taboos surrounding female sexuality.

Female sexual empowerment has been in our DNA for decades, and this project uses our voice and our expertise to close the orgasm gap.

Every month we will be joined by an inspirational Guest Editor to share their expertise, knowledge, and advice as well as their toy edit.

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Venus Libido is an illustrator, presenter, and sex educator from the UK. She is best known for her strikingly honest and sometimes controversial drawings and her sex-positive chat show Private Parts. Venus has been awarded as one of Bumble's top 50 creatives in London and proudly works as an ambassador for The Young Women's Trust, helping to support young women in low or no-pay.

Venus also uses her platform to speak on important matters such as self-pleasure, mental health, the LGBTQI+ community, and pansexuality. She also continues to share her ongoing battle with endometriosis and how to have an enjoyable and healthy sex life even with a gynecology condition.


Ohnut rings

"If the fear of pain during penetrative sex or self-pleasure turns into avoiding it completely or even overtime starts to lower your sex drive then try using these. These Ohnut rings are great for helping find a more comfortable position for you and your partner. These 4 skin-like rings can be layered to help when penetration feels uncomfortable and help those who may suffer from any gynecological conditions.

For many years my libido was nonexistent because the pain from my endometriosis was too uncomfortable but then I introduced these into my sex life and it was a complete game-changer. I was able to create comfort instead of pain and avoid any unnecessary pressure that caused me to avoid sex altogether."

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Lelo Sila Vibrator

"My go-to toy is always a clitoral stimulator, it always hits the right spot and never fails to satisfy me and my forever fluctuating sex drive. Even when I'm not in the mood but I know I need a good release after a long day I always find myself drifting off into a world of calm after using any clitoral stimulation.”

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Self-love massage wand

“A massage wand is a must-have toy in anyone's collection and a highly versatile toy. Not only does it bring instant power and strong vibrations it's also perfect for an all overuse on anybody and any genitalia. Use it as a sex toy, a back massager, or even during a sensual massage this toy will never fail to disappoint.”

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My Viv lipstick Vibrator

“There are two things I love about small vibrators and especially the My Viv range. The first being their ability to fit into my handbag, ready and waiting for any opportunity that might arise on a night out or trip abroad. Secondly, I really enjoy clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex so anything small enough to fit in the middle is the perfect threesome to a happy ending.”

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One Finger Vibrator

“Foreplay is highly underrated and a key ingredient to great sexual pleasure in my opinion. If your sex drive is particularly low then sticking to something less intense and more sensation-based is a good way to keeping the juices flowing. This toy will help arouse and excite you in more ways than one, whether your alone or you get your partner to tease you with this little treat your sure to spark some flames.”

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