How To Have Multiple Orgasms - Sexy Embrace

How to have
multiple orgasms

Did someone say multiple orgasms? Sign us up! Who doesn’t want to experience explosive waves of sexual pleasure shooting through their body, time and time again? Oooooo, aaaaaaa, oh baby, yes!

Okay, we reckon you’re pretty keen – we thought you might be.

While you might not have managed to get there yet, don’t let that dampen your desire. There’s so much you and your partner can do to bring on multiple orgasms, again and again and again.

From getting vagina fit, to stepping up the foreplay and exploring other erogenous zones, (almost) endless orgasms really are possible.

So, ladies, we won’t tease you any longer, our multiple orgasm guide will have you tipping over the edge until you just can’t take any more.

The Different Os

Whoever said the best things in life aren’t free obviously never had an orgasm before. Not only do they leave you spasming with delight, but they also relax your body, bring on sleep and keep you and your partner connected – you can’t argue with that.

While boys generally have to make do with a single climax before having to reload, us girls are designed to come not once, not twice, but an unlimited number of times without taking a break. That’s because we have multiple bits to stimulate and types of orgasm to have.

Boom. Thank you, anatomy!

Here are the two main types of big ‘O’ you can have...

Clitoral orgasm

The clit tends to be the go-to spot to lick, rub or titillate and why wouldn’t it be? This little love button has over 8,000 nerve endings just waiting to be set off – double those in a penis. And when they are, the feeling is oh so good.

Vaginal orgasm

The v-orgasm is all about the G-spot – that sweet spot of sensitivity found internally. When stimulated right, the resulting climax can be intense. But achieving one usually takes more practice.

Get v-fit

Femintimate Pelvic Floor Trainer

Keeping things toned is a sure-fire way to boost your chances of multiple climax. This means giving your pelvic floors, or Kegel muscles, a workout on a regular basis. Not only can this make your vaginal muscles stronger and more sensitive, increasing the intensity of your orgasms, but it will also keep you feeling tight and toned for your partner.

Not sure how to do them? Follow these simple steps...

  • Find the muscles you use to stop yourself peeing
  • Squeeze them in for 3 seconds then relax for 3 seconds
  • Repeat this 10-15 times, at least 3 times a day
  • Add one second a week until you can manage 10

If you want to spice your workout up a little bit, why not try using sex toys to do the job instead? By inserting and holding vagina-clenching toys such as our Jiggle Balls, you can get off while you get v-fit. Not to mention make those multiple orgasms easier to achieve.

Check out our blog post Jiggle Balls: The key to better sex and stronger orgasms

Focus on foreplay

Foreplay is a must for multiple orgasms

If you’re serious about keeping those intense waves of ecstasy coming, foreplay is not a maybe – it’s a must.

While orgasms are a natural process, you need arousal to fuel them. So, whether you’re pleasuring yourself or getting frisky with your partner, enjoy an intense build-up.

Get those fingers, mouths and sex toys going – starting slowly then gradually building up. The key is to tease and titillate, and even bring yourself right to the edge before slowing down and starting again. The more tension and excitement you create, the more explosive your orgasms will be.

Oral sex should definitely be on the menu. The gentle caress of a partner’s warm, wet tongue teasing the tip of your clit is a tried and tested way to set off that pre-climax tingle. It can also help you get wet, so if you’re planning on heading for the G-spot, the extra slip and slide will feel oh so amazing.

Think ‘eye of the storm’

focus on more sensual activities

If you’re after those multiple pleasure waves, you don’t just have to keep going. With the heightened sensitivity immediately following each orgasm, pulling back briefly can help to minimise discomfort and give you a chance to enjoy more of them.

During this pull-back period, direct your own or your partner’s attention away from that area and focus on some sensual, gentler kissing and caressing instead. But, a word of warning – don’t pull back from intimate contact for long or the moment may be lost.

Get in the mindset

Let yourself get lost in the moment

The more you want orgasms to happen, the less likely they will. So, try not to focus solely on the end-goal. Instead, let yourself get lost in the moment. Enjoy every little sensation and quit beating yourself up mentally if you’re not getting there quick enough. To achieve the best orgasms of your life, you need to relax and let physical arousal take over.

We’re not saying your mind should be totally distraction-free. Fantasising and talking dirty to your partner can really help fire things up and get you ready for some mind-blowing orgasm action. And don’t forget to keep the eye contact going. Being open and vulnerable can lead to deeper orgasmic experiences.

Top Tips to climax

Okay, so you’re engaging in lots of foreplay, giving yourself time to breathe and feeling mind as well as body ready, but you’re still not experiencing the multiples orgasms you know your body can deliver. So what else can you try?

Stay cool (well, hot!) – there are plenty of other ways to up your chances of climax...

Use​ ​lube for added ooohh – applying lube is a must. It not only increases the slip and slide of every move, but lube increases sensitivity and heightens arousal. Try a sensation lube like Heat Wave or Cool Tingle and discover a whole new world of intense orgasms.

Stimulate​ ​other ​erogenous​ ​zones – this could mean something as innocent but oh so erotic as tickling, kissing and touching the neck, nipple or around the ear. Or it can mean trying something a little more forbidden – hello, anal play.

Switch​ ​up​ ​your​ ​positions – if you always stick to one or two positions, you might find a whole new level of orgasmic satisfaction simply by trying something new. Check out our Sex Positions for inspiration or shop our position cards and products.

Toys to get your there

To keep your arousal levels high and those orgasms coming, nothing beats some playtime with a sex toy or two.

Our Moregasm Sex Toys range includes a variety of advanced vibrators with added Climax Technology. Developed by our experts, they can help tip you deliriously over the edge.

Stay cool (well, hot!) – there are plenty of other ways to up your chances of climax...

Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit – Made with soft contour silicone and our exclusive Climax Technology, explore 3 speeds and 4 vibration patterns internally or for targeted clitoral stimulation. When you're ready to climax, push the Boost button to activate a new and exciting quick pulsing vibration.

Moregasm+ Bullet – With a flexible tip that is ridged for extra stimulation, the Moregasm+ Bullet targets your deepest pleasure points, sending low frequency waves of vibration throughout your body for your most intense orgasm ever.

Moregasm+ wand – Perfect for nights in together or solo play, use the wand to massage and caress yourself or each other and feel the intense vibrations throughout your entire body until climax.

Ps. It’s not just vibrators that can get you there. If you’re up for some backdoor play, butt plug climaxes are oh so intense.

Or, why not try our one of our orgasm gels or balms? Simply apply a topical amount to the area and enjoy heighted sensations and prolonged pleasure. Wow.

Multiple orgasms aren’t a myth

They’re just a hot sexual encounter or two away. So, if you’re not spasming in ecstasy after trying out what you’ve just read, keep on keepin’ on and they’ll come.

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