How To Use a Wand Vibrator

There’s a reason they call them ‘magic’ wands – they provide deep, maximum contact vibrations for intensely mind-blowing orgasms. Wand vibrators sit in the ‘classic’ tier of sex toys, and there’s a good reason they remain one of the most popular today.

If you’ve never delved into the world of wands, you’re seriously missing out. So, where should you get started? From knowing what exactly a wand vibrator is, to discovering the ways you can use this amazing toy, we’ve got you covered.

What is a Wand Sex Toy?

First things first – what actually is a wand massager? Wand massagers are definitely one of the originals when it comes to sex toys. They’ve been around since the 60s, and the overall design hasn’t changed too much since then. As they say, if ain’t broke, don’t fix it!

The classic wand massager was originally designed as a personal body massager, as its powerful vibrations are great for relieving tension and relaxing muscles. However, as we know, there is a lot more fun to be had with vibrations than a simple massage! Women soon discovered that wand vibrators are an absolute godsend for direct, intense clitoral stimulation, and wands have been used as sex toys ever since.

A magic wand vibrator is shaped like a large microphone, with all the powerful vibrations focused into the head. This allows you to hold it comfortably and move it around your body to stimulate your external erogenous zones – expect seriously good vibes!

Today, you can find a variety of different magic wands available. The classic wand can be plugged in for unrivalled intensity, or, if you’re looking for something a little more portable, rechargeable wands offer all of that toe-curling power without any cables. Fancy something on the smaller side? Go mini-but-mighty for lip-biting, targeted vibrations.

Wands Vs. Vibrators: What’s the Difference?

So, we’ve established what a wand vibrator is. But what’s so good about it anyway? And why should you choose a wand over a different type of vibrator?

For most of us, our first sex toy tend to be something small and vibration-focused, such as a bullet – and there’s a reason for that! External vibrations are great for clitoral stimulation which, as we know, will have you well on your way to an incredible orgasm. If you’re a fan of this type of vibe, a wand is basically a much more powerful upgrade.

Wands are great for intense, external stimulation. Wand vibrators are usually large, with long handles allowing you to easily target all the right spots with minimal effort and acrobatics on your end. Their sheer power and ease of use make them an absolute must in any sex toy collection.

How To Use a Wand Massager

The fabulous thing about a wand vibrator is the number of ways you can use it. Whether you’re looking to take your next solo session to new heights or want to spice things up with your partner, a magic wand vibrator helps deliver seriously powerful orgasms. Here are a few ways you can have fun with yours…

How To Use a Magic Wand Vibrator: For Her

Wands are one of the most versatile toys in our range. Used solo, the powerful vibration is great for everything from self-seduction and massage to mind blowing orgasms. Wands vary in size but the larger, more intense wands are perfect for administering deep vibration to erogenous zones as well as the clitoris and labia. External stimulation can be a fantastic way of achieving a speedy orgasm or slowly building to something bigger and better. And you know what we always say – everything is better with lube! A squeeze of lube onto the head of the wand will help things glide around, and make those wonderful sensations even more intense.

How To Use a Magic Wand Vibrator: For Him

Share in the magic. Vibrations aren’t just for women; men are also able to achieve orgasm from vibration alone. Kick things up a notch and place the head of your wand against his scrotum or the underside of his penis. Pair this with a bit of ‘manual handling’ – game changer! You can use a personal wand massager to up the ante with oral too. Just place the head of your wand on the underside of your chin or against your throat during oral and let the vibrations do the hard work for you – travelling down his shaft and making every motion feel all the more incredible.

How To Use a Vibrating Wand Together

Want to put a little magic back between the sheets? A wand should be your first port of call. Heighten your date night and start with a romantic massage; use oils, lotions or a massage candle to lubricate the skin and use your wand to unwind and relax together. Massage is a great way to spend time together and talk as well as turning up the heat. Take turns massaging each other with the wand, exploring erogenous zones such as the breasts, nipples and inner thighs.

The Best Sex Positions To Try With a Wand

The length of a wand vibrator makes it great for external stimulation while you’re having sex – you or your partner can both comfortably position it exactly where it needs to be! If you’re introducing a wand into the bedroom, get things off orgasmically with these top three positions.

Get It Up

‘Get It Up’ is a fun and sexy twist on the ever-classic missionary position. Placing one leg on your partner's shoulders guarantees G-spot stimulation while leaving plenty of free hands to give your clit some attention too. Place a wand between you and you’ll be experiencing those mind-blowing blended orgasms in no time!

The Frisk

‘The Frisk’ is a relatively simple sex position, and like all the classics, feels great. This position involves your partner entering from behind as you bend over. Your partner’s hands are then perfectly placed to tease your nipples and clit with a wand, taking your session to a whole new level.

The Spoon-In

Who doesn’t love a bit of spooning? This position is perfect for early morning sex sessions, offering a whole load of stimulation with minimal effort. Once you’re in position, have your partner reach around with a wand for seriously intense results.

Can You Insert a Wand Vibrator?

Wand massagers are so popular because of the power they offer. This also means the classic wand style is pretty large in terms of sex toys, so for your own comfort and safety, we wouldn’t recommend using it internally!

There are, however, some wand vibrators with attachments specially designed for some fun internal play. Our Rechargeable Power Massage Wand Set comes with silicone attachments letting you switch between external and internal stimulation – truly the best of both worlds! You can also use your classic wand with any number of vibrators or dildos to turn up the pleasure even further and achieve the holy grail of orgasms… the blended orgasm!

However you’re getting down, we’re here to help you add a little magic. Experimenting with a wand vibrator is a great way to explore your body and figure out exactly what you like, plus, those ultra-powerful vibes make a wand an instant orgasm tool! So, what are you waiting for?

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